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Fifteen Characteristics of Great Leadership

Written by: Michael Aun

Leadership goes beyond just “management”. A look at some of the common characteristics that seem to underlie the common successes of great leaders.

Several years ago, while traveling in Europe with my wife, we found ourselves right in the middle of the conflict between the United States and Libya.

We had just entered West Germany, when a suspected Libyan terrorist blew up a pub, killing several Americans. Several days later, just as we were arriving in France, the United States responded by strategically bombing Libya.

While in France, as I listened as 80% of the European world criticized President Reagan for the retaliation, it occurred to me that the price of Mr. Reagan’s leadership must have truly been loneliness.

As we flew on to England, the criticism had grown, this time aimed at Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher. According to the Gallup poll taken that day, 65% of her own people leveled some of the harshest criticism on her administration for allowing the American bombers to fly from England’s shores. The French, who refused our request for help, were praised for their so-called restraint. Mrs. Thatcher, that gutsy lady who made a gutsy decision, was, instead rebuffed by her own people.

In both cases, responsible leaders made courageous decisions in what they perceived was the best interest of their people. Neither won the popularity contest, yet both, given the opportunity to decide again, would probably make the same decision today.

Some Common Misconceptions:

There are two major misconceptions in America today concerning leadership. The first is that many people confuse leadership with management. They are not the same. Leadership is deeply rooted philosophy. Management is the appropriation of certain skills to complete the tasks one faces. The second misconception is that people are born with the skills necessary to succeed. They aren’t necessarily born with any skills. Skills are developed and learned. Leadership is all about developing those skills to their maximum level of efficiency in an organization.

As a student who has researched habits of successful leaders, I have concluded that these people have a number of things in common. Whether by design or accident, it matters not. Successful leaders, both great and ruthless, have a number of identifiable characteristics. Here are just a few.

1. Great leaders gaze into life’s crystal ball.

They have a vision for the future that is founded on a sound set of personal goals and business principles. They know where they’re headed in life. More often than not, that direction is clearly marked in a written format that includes several key ingredients. First, they know how they want to feel after the game is over. They have the capacity to imagine themselves in “victory lane.” Second, their objective is quite specifically defined. If they wish to lose weight, for example, they know specifically how much they want to knock off. If they wish wealth, they know exactly what it is that they desire to have. Third, they place deadlines on themselves. In short, they make a contract with themselves and they abide by cutoff dates. Fourth, they clearly define the obstacles that stand in the way of the goal. Knowing what to overcome is half the battle. Finally, they hop in, do it, adjust from failure and do it again until they reach their objective — not by trial and error but rather by trial and success.

2. Great leaders are decisive.

The old expression “ready, aim, fire” might best describe the leadership philosophy among today’s current success stories in leadership. They make decisions and then live with the consequences. They’re risk takers, boardroom riverboat gamblers who are determined to get the most from their company and their product. They are well aware of the fact that indecision is, in fact, decision. They don’t want critical decisions being left to fate, time, circumstances or default. They want the right to decide, even if they fail.

3. Great leaders love to fail.

They understand that failure is the process by which we succeed. They know that a certain number of failures must accompany every success. The baseball hitter that’s hitting .333 is failing two out of every three times he travels to the plate. He earns over a million bucks a year. Yet the guy who’s hitting .250 only earns a fraction of that. Yet the difference between them is only one more hit in every twenty times at bat! As management guru Tom Peters puts it, people have got to learn to fail faster in order to keep up in the changing business world.

4. Great leaders aren’t concerned about what others think about them.

If leadership boiled down to someone taking a poll and deciding on what the majority thought at the very instant in time, then Mr. Gallup would be our president. Successful leaders don’t make decisions based on what’s going to make them popular. They analyze the situation and decide what’s in the best interest of the majority concerned. Many times, that decision is very lonely.

5. Great leaders subscribe to a set of standards on which they will not veer.

One of the truly great hallmarks of Ronald Reagan’s Presidency is the fact that, like him or not, you never have to question where he stands on an issue. He never once vacillated on the issue of abortion. You know right where he stands on taxation. The lone wrinkle in the armor was his indiscretion in trying to bargain with the Iranians. Even that “high risk” venture could have landed on its feet, as did the bombing of Libya, had all the pieces of the puzzle come together. He was within an inch of being a hero. This kind of hero/goat relationship is constructed on foundation that is based solidly on a set of standards.

6. Great leaders are honest.

There used to be a time when the word “honest” was considered sort of corny. Fairness and justice were never the issue — only profit. Today’s great leaders have found it profitable to be honest. When some crazy sabotaged Tylenol, Johnson & Johnson didn’t say, “It’s not our fault.” Instead, they faced the issue head up, and this stands today as one of the great corporate leadership decisions of our time. Because they respected the rights of their customers so much that they were willing to take a short-term $100 million-plus loss for the benefit of staying atop the world’s corporate leadership. It was, in fact, the right thing to do for all the right reasons, and Johnson & Johnson has rebounded nicely, proving again why it’s in fact one of the great corporations in the world today.

7. Great leaders expect a lot from their people.

If you expect a lot you’ll get a lot. Expect little, and you may get even less. Coach Vince Lombardi had a tremendous capacity to get more out of his players than any coach in his time. Ditto, Johnny Wooden, legendary Wizard of Westwood who led UCLA to so many National Basketball Championships. Both these men knew how to get their people to be team players — a critical part of the formula or expecting more. Conversely, coaches like former Maryland mentor Lefty Driesell have been criticized for not getting enough, for never being able to win “the big one.” One ACC coach remarked about Lefty’s Maryland teams, “Never has so little been done with so much!”

8. Great leaders show what to do and how to get it done.

They never expect their people to do something that they themselves would not do. If one’s philosophy is sound, then there’s never a question about the decision. That is best reflected in the attitude and actions of the leader.

9. Great leaders listen.

When your people are crying out to be heard, they do so with huge billboards and almost literally flash certain signals to you. Both directly and indirectly they cry out “love me.” Show them some affection. They scream out “notice me.” Learn to pay attention. They say, “Please recognize me.” Reward them for a job well done. Admonish them when their behavior warrants correction. Great leaders understand and accommodate the needs of their people.

10. Great leaders learn to love others.

They sense the need to build others up, many times even at their own expense. They can fire you and make you feel good about the process. The reason is they always deal with the performance and never the performer. Love the person, regardless of the person’s behavior. If they behavior is unsuitable, then speak to that, but never the performer.

11. Great leaders accept responsibility.

They keenly seek the role of leadership because it carries with it the awesome burden of responsibility. They are not drawn to power nor do they shrink from it. They see it as an incidental by-product of the leadership role. They always hold themselves accountable and never blame outside factors like interest rate or the stock market. They understand that if you fail in school, it’s not the teachers who fail you; they just deliver the bad news. If you fall behind in the marketplace, it’s not the market that failed you; it’s simply reflecting your latest performance rating.

12. Great leaders are in a constant state of change.

The trouble with the future is it ain’t what it used to be! Great leaders are in a constant state of innovation that forces them to look at old problems with new solutions. They view “state of the art” as state of necessity. They spend thousands of dollars on training and working with their people. They adopt the philosophy that “you can’t have rabbit stew until you catch the rabbit.” You can’t dispense information that you haven’t got. How would you like to be operated on by a surgeon that hasn’t been to school in ten years?

13. Great leaders are amazingly flexible.

Last October’s crash of the stock market brought the best out of many of yesterday’s great performers. Fate dealt them a severe blow. Many lost a fortune on Monday, but began to rebuild on Tuesday. They possess flexibility and resiliency. They bend but never break. They give, but never completely.

14.Great leaders have a charming sense of humor.

They laugh at their failures and take their successes in stride. They take the light things seriously and the serious things lightly. They constantly have fun, finding the genuine humor in the tragedy of the situation. They laugh at their shortcomings and accept them as part of the hand God dealt them. They possess an enthusiasm for life that transcends any problems they face.

15. Great leaders are committed.

Quite simply, they persist in their cause with reckless abandon. First, they believe in what they are doing. Second, the word “quit” simply doesn’t exist in their vocabulary. Third, they have powerfully strong convictions about their cause, and see their cause as a part of a bigger picture. Fourth, they are self-disciplined beyond understanding. Fifth, they are uncomplicated and hang tough through good and bad. Sixth, they understand sacrifice. Seventh, they enjoy the process of work. Eighth, they have morals that they won’t compromise. And finally, ninth, they subscribe to the theory, “if it is to be, it’s up to me.” They know that the buck stops with them.

Amazing Jazz Session

Spotted on: Jazz on the Tube

What more can you ask for?

Charlie Parker – Saxophone
Coleman Hawkins – Tenor saxophone
Hank Jones – Piano
Ray Brown – Double bass
Buddy Rich – Drums
Bill Harris – Trombone
Lester Young – Tenor saxophone
Harry Edison – Trumpet
Flip Phillips – Tenor saxophone
Ella Fitzgerald – Vocals, Scatting

Greatest Book Review Ever!

A friend recently pointed me to the greatest book review I have ever read on Amazon, and I am reposting it here for your enjoyment.  Trust me, it’s not what you think it is.

“Please allow me to share with you how “The Secret” changed my life and in a very real and substantive way allowed me to overcome a severe crisis in my personal life. It is well known that the premise of “The Secret” is the science of attracting the things in life that you desire and need and in removing from your life those things that you don’t want. Before finding this book, I knew nothing of these principles, the process of positive visualization, and had actually engaged in reckless behaviors to the point of endangering my own life and wellbeing.
At age 36, I found myself in a medium security prison serving 3-5 years for destruction of government property and public intoxication. This was stiff punishment for drunkenly defecating in a mailbox but as the judge pointed out, this was my third conviction for the exact same crime. I obviously had an alcohol problem and a deep and intense disrespect for the postal system, but even more importantly I was ignoring the very fabric of our metaphysical reality and inviting destructive influences into my life.
My fourth day in prison was the first day that I was allowed in general population and while in the recreation yard I was approached by a prisoner named Marcus who calmly informed me that as a new prisoner I had been purchased by him for three packs of Winston cigarettes and 8 ounces of Pruno (prison wine). Marcus elaborated further that I could expect to be [...] raped by him on a daily basis and that I had pretty eyes.
Needless to say, I was deeply shocked that my life had sunk to this level. Although I’ve never been homophobic I was discovering that I was very rape phobic and dismayed by my overall personal street value of roughly $15. I returned to my cell and sat very quietly, searching myself for answers on how I could improve my life and distance myself from harmful outside influences. At that point, in what I consider to be a miraculous moment, my cell mate Jim Norton informed me that he knew about the Marcus situation and that he had something that could solve my problems. He handed me a copy of “The Secret”. Normally I wouldn’t have turned to a self help book to resolve such a severe and immediate threat but I literally didn’t have any other available alternatives. I immediately opened the book and began to read.
The first few chapters deal with the essence of something called the “Law of Attraction” in which a primal universal force is available to us and can be harnessed for the betterment of our lives. The theoretical nature of the first few chapters wasn’t exactly putting me at peace. In fact, I had never meditated and had great difficulty with closing out the chaotic noises of the prison and visualizing the positive changes that I so dearly needed. It was when I reached Chapter 6 “The Secret to Relationships” that I realized how this book could help me distance myself from Marcus and his negative intentions. Starting with chapter six there was a cavity carved into the book and in that cavity was a prison shiv. This particular shiv was a toothbrush with a handle that had been repeatedly melted and ground into a razor sharp point.
The next day in the exercise yard I carried “The Secret” with me and when Marcus approached me I opened the book and stabbed him in the neck. The next eight weeks in solitary confinement provided ample time to practice positive visualization and the 16 hours per day of absolute darkness actually made visualization about the only thing that I actually could do. I’m not sure that everybody’s life will be changed in such a dramatic way by this book but I’m very thankful to have found it and will continue to recommend it heartily.”

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A Modern, Non-Religious Interpretation of God

I’ve been posting lots of videos to avoid writing.   Now that I’m writing more, I’ll be posting some of it here.

God is a funny word, and it means something different for all of us.  For me, god is infinity.  A concept that people pretend to grasp, but really describing something unknowable, and unnameable.  People seek to define god, and to put into a box, or a face, or a concept, and those limits on the scope of a higher power cause some people to resent the word, and the doctrines associated with it.  God is simply a word, a word that only has the value we place upon it.  And when we limit the scope of the concept, we cut ourselves off from anything greater than ourselves.  God only exists in the moment we speak the word.  I must first declare that created everything before god can create anything.  The infinite exists whether I say it does or not, but in the moment i speak it, it becomes real for me.

To me, a higher power is just that, a sum total of energy greater than my body.  The flip side of my corporeal limitation is the limitlessness of the universe.  Both the yang of my essence and the yin of the infinite make up the essence of the higher power.  I am god, and god is everything beyond me.  Without me, there can be no god, and without god, there can be no me.

God is Everything and Nothing.
God’s body is all matter, pulse is time, and soul is all energy.

There is no separation between myself and god, for to separate myself from the infinite is to deny myself my power, and to limit the scope of the higher power.  The universe would not be complete.  That is not to say I am significant.  I am a grain of dust, a spark, a small piece of the everything/nothing.  But without every spark and mote, there is no higher power, for the higher power is the sum total of everything, and I am part of everything.

I do not think got is sentient – not in the way we define it.  God is not a person, or some being.  God is something that can be understood by us in the same way that we understand infinity, a concept we desperately seek to grasp, but do not fully comprehend.  To fully grasp limitlessness is beyond the scope of human imagination, for the moment we seek to limit the infinite in a word, we have lost the infinite.  The moment we label nothing, we have made it into a thing, and thus we have lost nothing.  To consider the scope of everything, we reduce the scope of all things to a thing, an every thing, and thus we have lost the scope of everything.

There are too many strange things that happen in life for me to consider that I am disconnected from anything else.  I believe that people reduce the scope of God to manageable idea to protect their identity, to reassure themselves that they are a separate and unique being form all other.  To ease the pain of feeling alone and insignificant.  It doesn’t have to hurt to know what a small part of the infinite we are.  There is great freedom in knowing that this is the time we have, and we can make it whatever we want.  The infinite provides us with everything we need, and we got to choose what we take.

I think that the doctrine associated with God, the “words of God”, are simply designed to bring order to the chaos of humanity.  An attempt to have people be civilized.  In Judeo-Christian doctrine, there’s a “commandment” that one should not covet thy neighbor’s wife.
It’s healthy for people to honor their commitment to other people, and to honor other people’s commitments, too.  The idea isn’t that God told us not to do it, it’s a matter of respecting other people’s commitment, as we would others to honor our own.  Most stories and parables in religion are designed to teach a lesson on a honest way to live our lives, and nothing more.

Consider that as much as people bring love into the world for their definition of God, they also do horrible things in the name of their God – the violence between the three major western religions is catastrophic.  When people limit the scope of their definition of God, we argue and fight over who is right about the definition of God, and we lose the idea behind it, that we all respect and honor each other, the world we live in, and ourselves.

I don;t think most atheists believe in nothing, I believe they merely have tired of the limitations, rules, and doctrine of religion.  Human society has advanced far from even a hundred years ago, and our brains are capable of functioning on a high enough level that there is no need to provide stringent moral and ethical values on people.  People are capable of distinguishing effective ways to live their lives, and the yoke of religion doesn’t change the inherent nature of a person.

God is a word, a concept.  A simplifying of the majesty of all things, and interrelatedness between us and everything else.  God is not separate from anything.  We are all God, and God is everything.  And nothing.

Anyway

This Poem was written by Dr. Kent M. Keith, and hung on Mother Theresa’s wall. I hope it inspires you. :)

People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered.
- love them anyway! -

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
- Do good anyway! -

If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
- Succeed anyway! -

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
- Do good anyway! -

Honesty and frankness makes you vulnerable.
- Be honest and frank anyway! -

The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down
by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
- Think big anyway! -

People favor underdogs, but follow only the top dogs.
- Fight for a few underdogs anyway! -

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
- Build anyway! -

People really need help, but may attack you if you do help them.
- Help people anyway -

Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
- Give the world the best you have anyway -



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